My very special birthday present: the secret wish

Today is my birthday!

That day is always a bit special, torn between two feelings:

  • Childlike joy: the festive side because it's the day of the year when, intuitively, "I am the King or Queen of the Day," and the feeling that my little people will have all the pleasure of pampering and celebrating me.
  • The nostalgia of adding another digit to the years. The desire to control time and the impact of years on our bodies; an almost shameful fear of aging, and simply the desire to forget the very existence of this day.

In short, I want a big cake with lots of candles and the next second I'm "too much sugar and scared by the number on the candles", I don't want any more of it !!!

My Birthday Ritual

Usually I'm alone with my little cake lit by its single but pretty little candle… and the magical moment I prefer (after taking a nice photo ^^) It's about making my wish and blowing out the candle, letting my wishes be carried to Destiny by the smoke of the extinguished candle….

My Birthday Wish

And every year, I make pretty much the same wishes! ^^

But this year, I really feel like I'm on the path to achieving their goals!!! So what more could I ask for?!

Secret revelation

Personally, part of my wish so far contained a sentimental dimension: "To meet my Prince Charming"...

I used to make my wish, but with the years I had the impression that my wish was fading away and would wither like youth… a wish that would remain in the enchanted realm of Dreams, because finding the Right Person and having feelings be reciprocated seemed more and more unattainable.

Nevertheless, even though I had this conviction that I must have come from another planet and that I was probably the last specimen of my species; Therefore, condemned to remain alone and fade away in the indifference of all; I secretly hoped for a miracle.

Miracle of Love

Hope is ultimately a bit like faith in a gift from Destiny… (Absurd for the scientific and Cartesian mind of a Regulatory Science Expert?! ^^)

And then, as time and years go by, this mindset feels increasingly stifling in a world where everything must be proven to be validated and potentially considered acceptable… So why not try simply BELIEVING in one's Destiny? Why shouldn't I have a Prince to me somewhere ?!

Isn't life the combination of a succession of statistically improbable events?

Since 100% Lottery Winners have tried their luck, I don't have much to lose by playing, especially since there are Winners every Day!

Finding Love

And today, we must acknowledge that miracles can happen! And even better than my wishes, limited by the boundaries of my own thoughts!

From one miracle to another today, I gave myself the chance to be a A guide to help everyone find their winning combination and discover their romantic partner.

I don't think I could have imagined anything better, even in my dreams.

Because waiting for love to come on its own is letting chance decide for us… What if we started dreaming again?

Also read: Recognizing great love

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