{"id":30455,"date":"2025-01-13T13:54:52","date_gmt":"2025-01-13T12:54:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/?p=30455"},"modified":"2026-07-13T10:29:03","modified_gmt":"2026-07-13T08:29:03","slug":"homme-femme-double-discours","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/homme-femme-double-discours\/","title":{"rendered":"When a man talks, what a woman hears (really)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Men are sometimes clumsy, often unconscious, but not so dishonest when you can read between the lines! <\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<hr class=\"\" \/>\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"\">\r\n<div class=\"\">\r\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"When a man says &quot;you don&#039;t look your age&quot; #communication #relationamoureuse #love #celibataire\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/MKS9dNX0-dc?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1&#038;origin=https:\/\/evol-love.com\"  allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When a man says:<br \/>\u2013 \u00ab\u00a0\u00a0\u00bb<em>You don&#039;t look your age...<\/em>.\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0\u00bb<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br \/>What a woman understands:<br \/>\u2013 <em>\u00ab&quot;You&#039;re old, but it&#039;s okay...&quot;\u00bb<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><br \/>In relationships, we always talk about communication, so let&#039;s try to decipher some of the misunderstandings that exist between men and women.<br \/>Actually, it&#039;s not exactly misunderstandings, it&#039;s more like messages, unconscious, unconscious for the one who says them and unconscious for the one who receives them. Let me explain:<br \/>When a man says &quot;\u00ab\u00a0<em><strong>you don&#039;t look your age<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0\u00bb<br \/>He feels like he&#039;s paying a nice compliment, doesn&#039;t he, gentlemen?<br \/>What a woman understands is often the underlying thought that led the man to say that phrase; it&#039;s the unconscious message!<br \/>So that means:<br \/>\u00ab <em>You&#039;re old, but it&#039;s okay<\/em>\u2026<em><br \/>I prefer younger guys, but you&#039;re still usable.<\/em>..<em><br \/>I&#039;m being nice, I&#039;m telling you that you&#039;re not too marked by time.<\/em>\u2026<em><br \/>I&#039;m making an exception; I don&#039;t usually take old women\u2026<\/em> \u00bb<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And now, if you&#039;re thinking: <em>Oh dear, women are so complicated, aren&#039;t they?<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So no, they&#039;re not complicated, they just have good instincts and are good listeners.<br \/>Upon hearing this phrase, women in general are not going to analyze the words and dissect your behavior\u2026 <strong>In fact, that&#039;s the unconscious message she&#039;s going to receive.<\/strong>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She is not specifically trying to twist this phrase; it is simply what will be imprinted on her subconscious.<br \/>If you think women are complicated, ask yourself if, when you say that phrase (phrased as a compliment), you don&#039;t actually mean that\u00ab\u00a0 <em>Yes, she&#039;s old but she&#039;s still okay... she can still do it, and you&#039;re very kind to look at her?<\/em>\u00a0\u00bb<br \/>If you&#039;re honest with yourself, you&#039;ll answer: <em>Yes, that&#039;s true\u2026<\/em><br \/>But perhaps you weren&#039;t aware of that yet today.<br \/>In reality, it&#039;s not women who are complicated, it&#039;s men who are often dishonest. Dishonest with themselves, and women generally have a good instinct that will intuitively put them on the defensive!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n<hr class=\"\" \/>\r\n<p>Also read: <a href=\"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/piege-du-oui-relationnel\/\">The trap of the relational &quot;yes&quot;<\/a><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Did what you just read resonate with you?<\/strong><br \/>There will be no perfect moment, there is now<br \/>\ud83d\udc49 <a href=\"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/declic-relationnel\/\">The Turning Point<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When a man says &quot;you don&#039;t look your age,&quot; what does he really mean? It&#039;s not just a compliment... it&#039;s an emotional slip of the tongue! Learn to decipher these phrases that reveal far more than they seem. You&#039;ll never see these words the same way again.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":30069,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[562,565,563,564,566],"class_list":["post-30455","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lien-communication","tag-communication-inconsciente","tag-lecture-cachee","tag-malentendu-affectif","tag-projection-feminine","tag-signaux-mixtes"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30455","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30455"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30455\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34302,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30455\/revisions\/34302"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/30069"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30455"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30455"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30455"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}