{"id":30057,"date":"2024-08-26T22:24:56","date_gmt":"2024-08-26T20:24:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/?p=30057"},"modified":"2026-07-13T10:29:07","modified_gmt":"2026-07-13T08:29:07","slug":"verites-femme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/verites-femme\/","title":{"rendered":"What one woman refuses to admit (but secretly feels)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And yes, we women are generally quite sensitive in terms of communication, and often capable of rather sharp interpretations\u2026 So, gentlemen, be vigilant, especially on certain subjects!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Navigating relationships can be tricky, especially when it comes to sensitive topics. There are things many women aren&#039;t ready to hear, particularly at the beginning of a relationship. To avoid hurting or making her uncomfortable, here are five things you should never say to a woman.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"\">\r\n<div class=\"\">\r\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"5 things you should never say to a woman\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/MbqpndoyHvM?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1&#038;origin=https:\/\/evol-love.com\"  allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\r\n<\/div>\r\n<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. &quot;You&#039;re too emotional.&quot;\u00ab<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Warning, this looks like a disguised criticism\u2026.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Why, can it hurt us? \u2026 in fact, we take things very personally (maybe sometimes too much?!) but it&#039;s often a spontaneous way of functioning, and when emotions take over it&#039;s a bit of internal chaos\u2026 so in trying to calm ourselves down, this type of little phrase can on the contrary fan the flames rather than soothe them\u2026 being attentive, knowing how to understand your partner, and soothing them is a whole Art and a captivating Universe! <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why avoid this remark?<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Telling a woman she&#039;s too emotional can minimize her feelings and make her feel misunderstood. It can make her feel like her emotions are invalid or exaggerated.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alternative<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Show empathy and understanding. Say something like, &quot;I understand you&#039;re experiencing a lot of emotions right now. Tell me what&#039;s bothering you.&quot;\u00ab<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. &quot;My mother did it differently.&quot;\u00ab<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A RED flag means a negative judgment! <em>Obviously, the ultimate comparison is with Super-Mom! So, you need to understand that if there&#039;s a comparison, it means you&#039;re putting Mom and Darling in the same category?\u2026 but we all agree, Darling will NEVER be your Mom, okay? (well, it seems obvious, but it might be necessary to write it anyway, otherwise it&#039;s time to reread Oedipus).<\/em><img class=\"\" alt=\"Ce qu\u2019une femme refuse d\u2019admettre (mais ressent secr\u00e8tement)\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why avoid this comparison?<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Comparing a woman to your mother, even innocently, can be misinterpreted. It can make her feel judged or like she has to compete with your mother&#039;s image.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alternative<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you have preferences, express them without comparison. For example, &quot;I really like it when it&#039;s done this way, is that possible?&quot;\u00ab<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. &quot;You should lose a few pounds.&quot;\u00ab<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alarm! Is that a missile?!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Pourquoi, \u00e7a peut nous heurter? &#8230;\u00catre une Femme dans nos soci\u00e9t\u00e9 n&rsquo;est pas plus facile que d&rsquo;\u00eatre un Homme ! car si vous vous sentez juger sans cesse par votre taille, que ce soit votre grandeur, vos muscles, votre entrejambe, de votre voiture ou de votre compte en banque&#8230;. une Femme est jug\u00e9e par ses qualit\u00e9s notamment sa beaut\u00e9, dont sont tour de poitrine et son tour de hanche&#8230; ! or si elle est focalis\u00e9 par sa silhouette vous allez la trouvez superficelle et dans le cas contraire vous n&rsquo;aller m\u00eame pas le regarder (soyons sinc\u00e8re \ud83d\ude09 \u00e7a va peut-etre en faire hurler plus d&rsquo;un ou une mais n&rsquo;hesitez pas commenter ! )<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why avoid this criticism?<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Making comments about a woman&#039;s weight or appearance is extremely sensitive and can seriously damage her self-esteem. It can make her feel very vulnerable and hurt.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alternative<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Focus on positive and sincere compliments. Say something like, &quot;You are beautiful just the way you are. I love your smile\/your style\/etc.&quot;\u00ab<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. &quot;You&#039;re so different now.&quot;\u00ab<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Warning, this looks like a disguised criticism\u2026.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Why might this upset us? \u2026 Naturally, the (female) brain will look for the problem, because yes, this kind of statement is immediately interpreted as &quot;I was better off before?!&quot;. It&#039;s also a biological basis to always see the negative side to anticipate the next action, which, throughout human history, has pushed us to develop and question ourselves, but can sometimes have a perverse effect of always seeing the negative\u2026 (doesn&#039;t it?)<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why avoid this observation?<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even if you notice changes, pointing them out can be perceived as criticism. It might suggest you preferred an earlier version of her, which is demeaning.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alternative<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Highlight the positive aspects you appreciate in their current personality. For example, &quot;I really like the confidence you have now. It&#039;s inspiring.&quot;\u00ab<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. &quot;We need to talk.&quot;\u00ab<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Why, can that help us? <\/em>bother?<em> \u2026 firstly, a man rarely takes the initiative to start a discussion, and when he does, women are often disarmed, because if it gets to the point where the man wants to talk, it&#039;s generally to cut things short and abruptly\u2026 so hello anxiety before the discussion\u2026 otherwise, it&#039;s possible that he&#039;ll say something like that, but when he finally wants to talk, he can&#039;t manage it and postpones the discussion\u2026 and when he beats around the bush, in short, it&#039;s torture\u2026 in these cases, it&#039;s the one with the most \u00abballs\u00bb who will take charge\u2026 and it&#039;s often the woman who will have to get her hands dirty!<\/em><img class=\"\" alt=\"Ce qu\u2019une femme refuse d\u2019admettre (mais ressent secr\u00e8tement) \u2014 illustration 2\" \/><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why avoid this phrase?<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Just as with men, this phrase is often dreaded by women because it&#039;s usually followed by serious discussions or criticism. This can cause anxiety and nervousness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alternative<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you need to discuss something important, approach the subject gently and reassuringly. For example, &quot;I&#039;d like us to take a moment to talk about something that&#039;s been bothering me.&quot;\u00ab<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Conclusion<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Good communication is essential in any relationship, but how we approach certain topics can make all the difference. By avoiding these five potentially hurtful remarks, you can create an environment of trust and mutual understanding. The key is to address sensitive subjects tactfully and always show respect for the other person&#039;s feelings and perspectives. By practicing empathetic and positive communication, you will strengthen your relationship and build a solid foundation for the future.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Because waiting for love to come on its own is letting chance decide for us\u2026 What if we started dreaming again?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p>Also read: <a href=\"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/questions-pieges-rdv-femme\/\">Tricky questions about dating women<\/a><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Did what you just read resonate with you?<\/strong><br \/>There will be no perfect moment, there is now<br \/>\ud83d\udc49 <a href=\"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/declic-relationnel\/\">The Turning Point<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gentlemen, some phrases may seem harmless... but in a woman, they trigger an inner storm! \ud83d\ude05 Discover the 5 remarks to banish if you want to avoid misunderstandings (and clashes) right from the start of a relationship. A must-read!<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":32080,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[24],"tags":[478,477,480,479,481],"class_list":["post-30057","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-homme-haut-potentiel","tag-charge-mentale","tag-fierte-feminine","tag-peur-du-rejet","tag-sacrifice-affectif","tag-strategie-devitement"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30057","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=30057"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30057\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34326,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30057\/revisions\/34326"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/32080"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=30057"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=30057"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/evol-love.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=30057"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}